It is a beautiful day in KL as i sit at starbucks,hours before i actually wake up.So with nothing better to do,i just by myself, sip on my hot chocolate, and watch people around me go by. Not to my surprise, starbucks is already full even at 10.45am, but seeing as the fact that it is still early, 95% of them are in black blazers with their briefcases and laptops (a.k.a. YUPPIES).
You hardly see anyone my age up this early at starbucks. Probably because they have better things to do,so i just keep looking at my watch, praying that time goes by faster than waiting fir my darling divas get ready to go clubbing. It seems like a normal day, i over hear business proposals, stock exchange, the current news on CNN,people comparing on how morbid CNN can be than al-Jazeera, office gossips, etc etc. I happen to enjoy over hearing (not eavesdropping) when it comes to office gossips. Today's gossip: someone in some office is secretly trying to get together with the boss' secretary who apparently dresses "worse than *HT". "What in God's name does he see in her?" Bla bla bla..."The HR is a load of crap" bla bla bla..."can't wait for pay day" bla bla bla..."the office boy is cute but rumour has it he's gay" bla bla bla..."those shoes are so last season,why is she still wearing them?", and the gossips go on and on.
Naturally i'd just sit there and pretend that i'm not listening to their conversation,and i try so hard to keep myself from laughing by their hypocritical remarks and comments on the way people dress. I mean, HELLO. You say she dresses like "your typical L.A. Asian chick from Tokyo Drift", but YOU happen to be wearing something quite similar to what *HT wore a few weeks ago on tv!I dont see that much of a difference, and mind you, if you are already wearing a heavily pattered shirt (i'd like to add the fabric was silk), try avoiding horizontal striped pants (this goes for the woman sitting next to the *HT wannabe). We all judge,i admit that. But before we do, let's make sure we're not being hypocritical about it.=)
Speaking of fashion, as im observing the styles in the Feb issue of CLEO, mod is actually making a comeback (fashion is going backwards). It is hard for someone my size to pull it off.I dont have long skinny legs like Twiggy. I think i'd rather stick to the 40s-50s, thanks. I dont think i need reminding that i am not really tall and a few kg's overweight. I'm still proud of my curves. I think if Marilyn Monroe and Beyonce can pull it off then why can't i? I look up to my sister when it comes to fashion. She may be big, but shes happy and still fashionable. Sometimes i wonder...what makes one look slim?cutting,fabric,colour,patterns,or accessorising? Stampford says," It's all about confidence darling, just consider yourself lucky that you don't have a big ass like me". That's cute Stanny. But we all know you could pull THAT off.Shake it baby!you are FIIIEEEERRRRCCCEEEEEE!!!!=D
-I'll give you a WILD guess who *HT is...=)
A few days ago, I had been on the phone with a really good friend of mine. We spent about an hour catching up with life,with an additional hour of bitching, followed by the inevitable topic...relationships (note: he is as straight as a ruler).
We were discussing about recent events for our relationship lives. The BREAK UP, and it got me thinking...how long does it actually take for someone to move on with their lives after breaking up with the supposed mr./ms.right? I had always thought that females were the only ones who take a longer time to get over their exes. To my biggest surprise, I was wrong. My good friend was telling me on how hard it was for him to move on up till a point where he just couldnt give a damn anymore. All i could do is be mad at Turtle.=s
I didnt really calculate the duration of his break-up, but it seemed like it has been quite a loong time.Known fact, that he is a really really sweet guy, so how come it takes a long time for him to get over it and go out with somebody else? I'm pretty sure my close friends who reads this will tell me "speak for yourself", which is true. I had a relationship with M officially for a week an i still find myself thinking about him after almost a year since we had a thing together.Paris said: " Come on dee...all you want from M is for it to turn from EX to SEX!Betul tak?" =)
So back to the question...how long is it supposed to take for one to get over their ex?Open to men and women,unless sex (without emotions) was a daily routine in their lives. I have found that m darling divas avoid relationships. Completely impressed by the fact that they somewhat prevent getting their hearts broken, yet, at the same time, they still enjoy staring and flirting at hot men that women can't their hands on. Life sucks for that.I have a feeling Hafiz might win for the show "What Women Want". I need to start a petition, who believes that he is.._ _ _ ???
Honestly speaking...that would be the saddest thing if he won.I mean just because he's soft spoken, sensitive,non violent, and probably good enough to bring back to your parents, this is already stereotyping on what women REALLY want!It would be sad to know what a woman really wants is a gay man.It kills hope for all. And another thing, his english...BURN!why oh why do you do this to us?can't you see that youre stating a FACT of what women really want is actually a STRAIGHT man with gay characteristics? In that case i can go for my darling divas lah?that will give them the shock of their lives!
Topic: Zsa Zsa Zsu. To Forget Or Not To Forget?
The whole zsa zsa zsu feeling when two people get together truly is unforgettable. The stars in your eyes, the butterflies in your stomache, the sparks in the air, your heat beats faster than normal, and the expression on your face like when Stampford sees Chanel on sale(50-70% OFF). After that phase ends in a relationship,it hurts to let go of the good memories and fun times you've had. Apparently it takes longer depending on what the scale of zsa zsa zsu you were feeling. I would rate mine with Turtle 15/10. However mad i am at him,i still find it hard not to think about him.I still love him.I guess i always will.
Conclusion: Maybe you really can't calculate how long it takes to get over someone,be it your ex or not.It really depends on the person,what they went through in the relationship, and how much one wants to forget. Break ups could hurt like hell has shoved something sharp up your ass...but no matter how bad it gets...you still find yourself smiling thinking about the good memories. The first kiss, the late dinners, driving around to nowhere, and the air kelapa by the lake.
dedicated to those who believe. My baby, my lover, and my bestfriend.
-dhn-
Party Plan??: Drag Disco Prom!
Monday, February 26, 2007
Sleeping Beauty & The City (14/2)
On a dark starry night, it would be impossible not to get ASTRO coverage. So the inner child of an 18 year old watched Rocko's Modern Life (it was an episode about fairytale spoofs) as she enjoyed a hot cup of tea and a bowl of ice cream. After watching it, it reminded her of the simpler times in life where she spent most of her time next to her prince charming who owned a black proton saga,equipped with what she would call "overused speakers", driving around the lands (Serdang, Damansara, Bangsar,Kepong,etc) . Those were the days she thought, but since life isnt a cartoon, it was too good to last forever.
The whole concept of "once upon a time" and"happily ever after" clearly is over-rated and is highly exposed to children making them think that they're lives will be filled with happily ever afters. I remember when i was younger, i used to sit by my window and wait for my prince charming on a whit horse to climb into my room and rescue me, where we would see the world and he would spoil me with love and jewellery. At that time, i used to imagine that character being payed by Nick Carter (mind you this was when i was 9 years old. Backstreet Boys was IN then). At the age of 12, i had my FIRST prince charming. He couldnt have been any cuter than he was, enjoyed wrestling (at that age who didnt?), and was a supporter for Newcastle. We did the typical first-timer couple things like making his class mate run up and down the stairs passing our notes, spend time on the phone getting to know each other, and pretending not to look at each other whenever we passed at the corridor. For some strange reason, I thought that would be my happily ever after where i dreamed that i would spend the rest of my life with a very good looking, wrestler and Newcastle loving boy. After 8 months of no progress (no holding hands), the bastard dumped me. I had never felt so angry and humiliated. So that was when it hit me. In reality, sleeping beauty fell into a deep sleep, woke up, got a cab to KL, and got herself a job as a lawyer where she made enough money to have regular visits to the hair salon and Gucci.
People dream that they hit they're happily ever afters once the zsa zsa zsu feeling gets to them. Side effects: They tend to forget about reality, the thing people try so hard to open their eyes to, admitting that shit happens if the relationship ends. Instead they spend hours locked up in the tower, letting their hair grow (split ends never go with anything), and pray hard to God that the recently ex- Prince Charming would come back to rescue them. Unless there's a wicked witch involved (did i say witch? i meant bitch), they need their fairy friends to help them realise that he was just not that into you and you could do so much better than that.
So thats where you get out of the tower and go to the latest gay club, where you can bitch with the other princesses about what an asshole he had been without being bothered by some drunk guy and save up by spending RM25 (including beer) at the door. End the night with having lots of laughs, martinis, loss of calories, and thoughts in the mind whether the cute guy you were dancing with was bisexual or not.
That's the kind of happily ever after i'm looking for. A friend of mine believes that it exists somewhere in this universe. Its kinda comforting to hear especially after a breakup. Because it will always remind you that somewhere in this city, there's a guy out there sitting by the bar who's going to ask for your number...and who knows? you could even end up having a few free drinks.=)
-This post was meant for Valentine's Day. Wishing you guys a very belated one,despite the fact that i dont believe in it. Its only a way to get people to buy hallmark cards and what nots. seriously people,next time save your money!
The whole concept of "once upon a time" and"happily ever after" clearly is over-rated and is highly exposed to children making them think that they're lives will be filled with happily ever afters. I remember when i was younger, i used to sit by my window and wait for my prince charming on a whit horse to climb into my room and rescue me, where we would see the world and he would spoil me with love and jewellery. At that time, i used to imagine that character being payed by Nick Carter (mind you this was when i was 9 years old. Backstreet Boys was IN then). At the age of 12, i had my FIRST prince charming. He couldnt have been any cuter than he was, enjoyed wrestling (at that age who didnt?), and was a supporter for Newcastle. We did the typical first-timer couple things like making his class mate run up and down the stairs passing our notes, spend time on the phone getting to know each other, and pretending not to look at each other whenever we passed at the corridor. For some strange reason, I thought that would be my happily ever after where i dreamed that i would spend the rest of my life with a very good looking, wrestler and Newcastle loving boy. After 8 months of no progress (no holding hands), the bastard dumped me. I had never felt so angry and humiliated. So that was when it hit me. In reality, sleeping beauty fell into a deep sleep, woke up, got a cab to KL, and got herself a job as a lawyer where she made enough money to have regular visits to the hair salon and Gucci.
People dream that they hit they're happily ever afters once the zsa zsa zsu feeling gets to them. Side effects: They tend to forget about reality, the thing people try so hard to open their eyes to, admitting that shit happens if the relationship ends. Instead they spend hours locked up in the tower, letting their hair grow (split ends never go with anything), and pray hard to God that the recently ex- Prince Charming would come back to rescue them. Unless there's a wicked witch involved (did i say witch? i meant bitch), they need their fairy friends to help them realise that he was just not that into you and you could do so much better than that.
So thats where you get out of the tower and go to the latest gay club, where you can bitch with the other princesses about what an asshole he had been without being bothered by some drunk guy and save up by spending RM25 (including beer) at the door. End the night with having lots of laughs, martinis, loss of calories, and thoughts in the mind whether the cute guy you were dancing with was bisexual or not.
That's the kind of happily ever after i'm looking for. A friend of mine believes that it exists somewhere in this universe. Its kinda comforting to hear especially after a breakup. Because it will always remind you that somewhere in this city, there's a guy out there sitting by the bar who's going to ask for your number...and who knows? you could even end up having a few free drinks.=)
-This post was meant for Valentine's Day. Wishing you guys a very belated one,despite the fact that i dont believe in it. Its only a way to get people to buy hallmark cards and what nots. seriously people,next time save your money!
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